My title basically describes me ! And I am sure that I am not the only one, I mean this society we live in throws us some real challenges these days. When we were little children we would dream of growing up , we would forever ponder on the thought of marrying a prince or princess. Fantasised about the day our parents would no longer have a call on our lives and we would move from the comfort of their hearts. But when that time for us to stop the fantasying to stop the acting and the dress up , it hits us like a real wrecking ball. Miley Cyrus’s wrecking ball song really hit that one on the head for me. So basically I am going to be posting about the newest trends (to keep all of us who are so confused about what to wear … thats me all the time but now I have the perfect outfit for every situation this world throws at me). Ill also be talking about some of the confusing situations which really confuses people like me and ill try and help to make it clearer for you readers!

This is an example post, originally published as part of Blogging University. Enroll in one of our ten programs, and start your blog right.

You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

• Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
• Because it will help you focus you own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

To help you get started, here are a few questions:

• Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
• What topics do you think you’ll write about?
• Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
• If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

Can’t think how to get started? Just write the first thing that pops into your head. Anne Lamott, author of a book on writing we love, says that you need to give yourself permission to write a “crappy first draft”. Anne makes a great point — just start writing, and worry about editing it later.

When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.